Immigration
is a very stressful experience. Each immigrant will experience the
stress in a different way – for some the stress will be more and for
some much less. Some of the following, could be factors that contribute
to your stress level:
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You
have close family relationships, and have to leave them "at
home".
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You
can not speak one of the official languages, which are English and
French.
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You
have a high standard of living at the time you decide to immigrate,
and you might have to take a plunch for a short while (while getting
back on your feet in the new country).
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You
have very specific skills that are not on big demand in Canada.
It might take a while to find a job in that profession at first. While
waiting for that opportunity you might have to work in another profession,
or even decide that it is best to change career altogether.
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Extra
studies might be required to get professional recognition in Canada
in your career.
Each
person's situation is unique and each person’s solution to stress
will be different. However, when you follow certain general rules,
your stress level will be considerably less. See your plan to immigrate
as a huge, new project. Consider the "project" period and
go from there. Well planned projects generates the least stress. The
following are some basic stress relieving rules:
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Plan
ahead, phase by phase (who, what, when, where, how).
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Take
language lessons before coming to Canada (it is possible to complete
some some locally).
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Set
realistic goals (most new projects start from the bottom and time
is everything - give yourself time). If your goals are too high,
it will make you miserable if you could not make the deadline.
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Make
friends to give advice.
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Immigrants
from your own country could easily point out differences between
your country and Canada; and Canadian friends will show you the
rich culture and ways of Canada.
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Get
professional help if stress gets the better of you.
- The
immigration process starts the day when you decide to immigrate. Look
out for signs of stress. It should be monitored and if recognized,
half the battle is won. Immediately deal with the issue (change what
you can; and accept what you can not change). Talk to other immigrants
and you will soon realize that most of them were in the same situations.
This could also be a stress reliever.
- Try
to look forward to the "new" and not to the "familiar".
You will find many wonderful things in your new country, but it will
never be "the same". Always remember the reason, why you
decided to immigrate in the first place.
- Get
your e-mail up and running as soon as possible and you will soon realize,
just how small the world is. This will be your cheap "life-line"
to family and friends right over the world.
Tip: Do
not say things in your own language, when you do not want the people
around you to understand. You will be surprised who understand you.
You might just find your old school buddy's sister next to you in the
grocery store...
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